Tuesday 23 December 2014

Vitamin B and Tinsel

Dear Ella,

Plenty of the first (vitamin B) to be on the safe side - nobody likes to see a mood swing over Christmas - and just maybe taking vitamin B helps!  Lacking a little in the tinsel department.  Bit half hearted on the Christmas decorations this year - we got a tree up, but not much more.  Still it looks lovely and it's only been attacked by Brian once or twice.

Just back from the last big supermarket shop - usual sling it all in trolley and hope that it  comes together when the time comes.  Put in the usual essential extras - paracetamol, Pringles and pomegranates - paracetamol for me, Pringles for you and pomegranates for Sophie.

Unpacked and stashed everything away - enjoying a coffee and just being at home.  #loveallington - my new hashtag,  (not that I have ever had one before).  All is calm and peaceful and can feel the comfort of home wrapping its self around me.  Counting my blessings to have such a lovely place to live in and that the doors will be open to friends and family over the next few days.

All the lovely girls coming round tonight - Annie, Amy, Maisy, and Maya (George away climbing in Spain - of all places) - "mothers allowed if well behaved". Sophie and the cutting crew will be loitering for a short period prior to taking the Thekla by storm - you would have been torn - stay in with the girls or head down to your favourite boat…..

Took Granddad out for lunch yesterday - Park Garden Centre at Almondsbury - we had a lovely potter and loved seeing the fish - just like keeping you and Sophie busy in the run up to Christmas when you were little girls.

Out third Christmas without you is less than 48 hours away - as ever on we go, one foot in front of the other doing the best we can (well most of the time).  Wish you were here - or at least on your way home….

Lots of love

Mum
XXX
















Sunday 14 December 2014

Hugs and stuff

Dear Ella,

Your sister is home for Christmas - delivered safe and sound yesterday - exhausted and discombobulated - a little like you used to be when you arrived home from hospital.

I contained my "excitement" to three hugs and three questions in the first half hour!  24 hours later - its like she's never been away.

A day of just being at home, knocking around each other in a relatively comfortable, familiar and peaceful way.  A way that would be strange to others - in the same way that "their way" would be strange and unfamiliar to us.  It's our rhythm and routine - ands just for now its good enough, not special, yet very special.

As I hand washed (yep you read that right) her favourite jumper - I thought of my Mum - and all the times I went home.  Being a good Mum she just let me fit back in and found ways to seamlessly and unconditionally be my Mum - that I never even noticed or recognised.  Being a Mum - a thankless yet wonderful role and position to hold.   Am trying to learn to be better at it every day.

Lots of love

Mum
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Wednesday 10 December 2014

Listening to...

Dear Ella,

Listening to my "Ella sound track", "if you like sandy dunes and salty air" amongst other lyrics - and feeling you right here, right now.  Thank you lovely girl for staying in my spirit,

Am buttoning down and adopting brace position for season of goodwill - and can hear you very clearly saying "come on Mum….", am "coming on" I promise.

Lots of love

Mum
XXX